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Options March 19, 2014: #16 - Part of Me

This week on the show, eavesdropping on intimate moments between couples. Audrey gets drunk and asks her boyfriend to do her a very special favor -- when she dies, will he eat her ashes? And Laura sits down with her partner Danny to discuss her tame-yet-ungoogleable fetish.

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Artist Track Album Label Year Format Comments Approx. start time
            Let's eavesdrop on intimate moments between couples. Audrey gets drunk and asks her boyfriend to do her a very special favor -- when she dies, will he eat her ashes? And Laura sits down with her partner Danny to discuss her tame-yet-ungoogleable fetish.   
Beex  Beat, Beat   Options Necroscopix (1970 - 1981): Analog Music from a Lost World (V/A)  Artifacts/yclept  2013  MP3  Free Music Archive   
FMU Girls              0:01:56 ()
DJ Faye            http://wfmu.org/playlists/HC  0:02:35 ()
DJ Stashu            http://www.wfmu.org/playlists/YN  0:03:50 ()
Audrey              0:04:00 ()
The LibraryAnns  Instrumental   Options Our Band of Clowns  Self-Released  2010  MP3  Free Music Archive   
Laura and Danny            @lrmayer @danblondell  0:04:01 ()
Danny's Newsletter            http://goooodmorning.com  0:04:41 ()
Couple Stuff              0:04:52 ()
The Custodian Of Records  Korean BBQ   Options She Hate Me  Domination Recordings  2009  MP3  Free Music Archive   
Holly Wood            @girlziplocked   
Avery Trufelman            @Trufelman   
CIVIL CIVIC  Lights On A Leash   Options Lights On A Leash  Bad Panda Records  2010  MP3  Free Music Archive   

Listener comments!

  Wed. 3/19/14 7:01pm UsPostage:

Great show!
  Wed. 3/19/14 7:03pm oh:

I think I know why you didn't get much.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:04pm glenn:

i think i'm g.g.g, but i ain't eatin' anybody's ashes, noway, nohow.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:06pm stavros:

lol. "why do you have to get cremated first" is probably the best way that question has ever been answered
  Wed. 3/19/14 7:09pm Cliff:

It never would've occurred to me to describe post-mortem cannibalism as "nice".
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:09pm sc123:

Are we listening to pillow talk between stoners?
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:09pm BadGuyZero:

If the interwebs has successfully accomplished one thing it's validating everybody's fetishes.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:09pm SeanG:

I'm missing out on all that cute underwear!
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:10pm stavros:

this is so weird. i recently had the what i want to be done to my dead body with my s.o. this past week. its a weird thing to bring up at 26
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:10pm BadGuyZero:

I hear a banjo. So, yes...total stoners.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:10pm Andge:

Gotta run, enjoy the show! Thank you Nick the Bard for board oping tonight!
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:11pm Callieflower:

It also let you tell me that the Sour Patch Kids gum is bad, Randall. There's also that!
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:12pm coelacanth:

I hope to be alkaline hydrolysised...Anyone who wants to drink my green slime juice is welcome to it.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:13pm BadGuyZero:

That is true, Callie.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:17pm stavros:

ashes can prob be mixed into homemade cupcake frosting
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:17pm coelacanth:

There's not much texture. It's silky soft....But i'm sure it tastes like charcoal,and highly alkalinises the eater,in a bad way.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:18pm stavros:

i can TOTALLY relate to wanting something to happen to my body after i die thats not ending up in an overpriced wooden box in an overpriced hole. it doesnt seem natural to me
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:19pm coelacanth:

(though spread between 20 people it probably wouldn't hurt.)
  Wed. 3/19/14 7:19pm Cliff:

"There's no point to life!" This kid knows what's up.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:19pm coelacanth:

That kid ruled!
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:25pm KristinaKoffee:

tending to agree with this guy, i think actual fetishes represent a void in your life. like a guy who loves blondes in white heels probably craves elite status
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:26pm stavros:

@kristina do you think that applies to all fetishes?
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:27pm KristinaKoffee:

or like just being sex obsessed means you're not getting laid at all right? simple.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:27pm stavros:

lol "watch" porn is totally ungooglable. thats fucking hilarious
  Wed. 3/19/14 7:29pm jon:

cant stop listening. good show andrea
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:30pm KristinaKoffee:

@stavros yeah i think there's a psychological underpinning for all fetishes.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:32pm stavros:

this couple is really funny
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:32pm coelacanth:

KristinaKoffee That's not true- your previous.(maybe you were kidding!) -If i DO IT once i want more...like 6-12 X/week...But if i go 2 weeks without,i stop craving it so hard.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:33pm coelacanth:

...But totally agree about fetishes.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:37pm KristinaKoffee:

yeah that was not serious :) also great username Coelacanth
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:41pm KristinaKoffee:

i think viking costumes are awesome but obviously if you look the part (big, hairy & greasy)
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:45pm stavros:

I'm not sure if it's as easy to trace back to the first experience like the man is saying but i think there is something about it filling a void from an early age like i think you @kristina and @coelacanth are saying.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:48pm KristinaKoffee:

... do you think it's possible to not have a fetish? i'm not sure, i think everyone has one and it changes in life. i think women usually say they don't have one but i think it's because there's a lot riding on a woman's sex drive ESP in a relationship
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:50pm stavros:

@kristina i think it depends on what we are defining as a fetish. excluding asexuality, everybody is in to something or type, etc.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:55pm stavros:

I disagree with the interviewees on one point of their conversation. If a consenting 20 something wants to do whatever with a consenting 80 something, then all power to them. I don't want to because that's not my thing but I won't get in the way of somebody elses sexual expression unless its abusive and nonconsensual (i.e. rape/children/non-human living creatures). I hate cops but I won't hate on that woman who is into them sexually because that wouldn't be very sex positive.
  Wed. 3/19/14 7:56pm david from ks:

,,,,i recall reading of bob evans the then head of paramount hadda thing for being defecated on bya working girl,,
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:56pm coelacanth:

I think many (most?) people deny their fetishes,but also Yes,it depends on each individual's line they draw to define fetish.
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:57pm the glowing one:

that's the reason I stopped drinking. being the only sober person at such a party is a very empowering experience. hehehe
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:57pm coelacanth:

Damn,i was away from the show for 15 minutes and missed so much!
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:58pm stavros:

Great show Andrea! thanks!
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:58pm KristinaKoffee:

goodnight everyone, great show tonight Andrea
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 7:59pm Philthy woman:

Re. the opeing of your show toight, don't dispair; I rejoice to tell you that it can get better, sex in your 30's can be better than your 20's. I my experiece at least. And if your into studies there have been studies that claim women are actually peaking and more attractive in there 30's. Hopefuly a grain of hope at the end of the night. And for me: I'm hoping it can keep on- keeping on and get better in my 40's and on...
Avatar Wed. 3/19/14 8:02pm glenn:

i stopped drinking because it was making me sick, and i hate being around slobbering yahoos.
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